![]() ![]() Doing it every once in a while is fine, but doing it every night or even every other night is excessive. Just having a third person around all of the time can be annoying, and having you two cuddling every night can be awkward. The respectful thing to do for both of your roommates would be to sleep in your own rooms, at least for most of the week. Dorm rooms are small and it’s bad enough having to share with one person, let alone two. ![]() ![]() I would be annoyed by it, especially if it’s happening every night or every other night. Many people will agree to something when it happens the first time because they don’t realize there will be a 20th time, or they don’t realize that they will feel differently by the 20th time but by then, they feel that it’s too late to object. If it’s a shared suite and you two don’t share an actual bedroom, I wouldn’t care at all.Ĭonsider the possibility that your roommates don’t really mean it when they say they don’t mind. If you just watch Netflix and study, why can’t you do that in the lounge (using a headphone splitter if there are other people there)? And you probably need to find another way to get over your insomnia. You unfortunately can’t sleep over all the time the way you would if you had apartments or something. I think that although you and the boyfriend really like to spend time together, you have to understand the constraints of living in the residence hall with a shared room. Sometimes you just want to chill in your own room with nobody but the other people who actually belong there. Plus, what if I want to have my own friends in the room from time to time? How are we going to cram all those people in there? It’s not just about the PDA. That means if I want to get dressed or undressed, I have to go in the bathroom if I want to just chill and watch my own TV in my pajamas or a t-shirt, I can’t do that and traditional rooms are small enough for 2 people, let alone 3. It’s not just about what you’re doing together, but about always having someone else in my room. I’d understand it a couple times a month (maybe like up to 4-5, non-consecutively) but more than that it would get to be a problem. Personally, I would think it was weird to sleep in the same room with my roommate cuddled up in bed with her boyfriend. When you say roommate, I am assuming that you are sharing an actual bedroom with your roommate (as opposed to having your own room with a suite). ![]()
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